Mourning the Victorian Way

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After Queen Victoria's husband, Prince Albert suddenly passes away in 1861, she goes into a permanent state of mourning until her death in 1901. She dresses in only black and even requires her ladies in waiting dress in mourning clothes for 3 years, well beyond the standard. Victoria withdrew from many public duties after Albert’s death and limited all social interactions. This behavior was unusual for a monarch.

Queen Victoria’s Mourning Practices Compared to Others

Most middle- and upper-class Victorians followed a structured mourning timeline:

• First mourning: Lasted about a year, with all black clothing and no to minimal jewelry.

• Second mourning: Lasted six months to a year, allowing for some muted colors and simpler attire. Jewelry could be brought back into your dressing.

• Half-mourning: Lasted several months, permitting grays, purples, and other subdued colors.

  
  

Victoria’s decision to remain in full mourning indefinitely was exceptional and extraordinary! Her behavior influenced the aristocracy, who would then in turn often extend their mourning periods and adopted more elaborate customs.